Are Our Fears Worthy?

I am the most anxious and fearful person in my close-knit group. Even the smallest problem makes me freak out, causing me to sweat and feel nauseous. In these moments, I turn to my close friends, who are the least judgmental, providing comfort and helping to calm me down.

Recently, I encountered a situation that amplified my anxiety. I have always been intimidated by my Java instructor, perceiving him as strict and short-tempered. When he instructed the entire class to submit Java records by Thursday, I hesitated due to an incomplete assignment. Two days later, he sent a message to the official group reminding us about the submission.

I felt paralyzed with fear. I knew that approaching him now might lead to him throwing away my book and getting zero marks. In a state of panic, I brainstormed various excuses with my friends, considering saying that I lost my book, was sick, or left it in his cabin and he did not notice it. The anxiety about facing the discomfort and potential consequences overwhelmed me and I was trying my level best to escape from that situation.

Eventually, I mustered the courage to visit his cabin. To my surprise, he was taking a nap when I arrived. With hesitation, I called out to him, and he woke up with red eyes. I thought aaj tho gaya.

However, as I presented my record for correction, his response was unexpected. He looked at me with a warm smile, corrected my book, and even praised me for being a good student throughout the semester. He offered valuable advice on learning Java and discussed the opportunities available.

This experience taught me a valuable lesson. Despite my initial anxiety, I realized that life exists beyond fear.

Embracing uncertainty and facing our fears can lead to pleasant surprises. Instead of avoiding discomfort, it is essential to confront it and explore the opportunities that lie on the other side of fear.