Hope is not best in this case

I went through a really tough time last year, facing a big challenge that tested how strong I am. It was really hard, and I felt like I had no hope. It seemed like things would never get better. But now, thankfully, I can say that even though my problems haven’t gone away, I have a new hope for the future.

To me, hope is a feeling that helps us keep going and deal with tough times. When we lose hope, it’s hard to find the motivation to work towards our goals.

I really understand how important hope is, and I hope that everyone can feel hopeful one day.

But there’s something tricky about hope, especially when we think we can change other people. That’s where hope can be a problem, in my opinion.

Let me explain with an example. Imagine my partner is a great person but tends to be unfaithful. There are attracted to other people and keep pursuing them, even when we’re married. Even though my partner is good in many ways, I thought I could make them stop this behavior.

I tried everything – changing how I look, talking to them about how much it hurt me, and telling them I felt not good enough when they chased after other people, even while we were married.

Sadly, things won’t change, and it breaks my heart.

What caused my heartbreak was HOPE

This hope wasted a lot of my time and energy and made me really unhappy. What I want to say is that people usually don’t change their identity unless they really want to.Only we will be exhausted trying to change them.All we can do is give them support when they are willing to.