tips for badass confidence

“Confidence is contagious. So smile, walk tall, and speak with conviction.”

– Roy T. Bennett

“Confidence is not arrogance. Confidence is knowing your worth and believing in yourself.”

“Confidence is not about being perfect. It’s about knowing that you’re good enough.”

Confidence could be a turn-on or being underconfident may be a deal-breaker. It can make you a magnet for opportunities, while the lack of it can repel your dreams. Confidence helps you believe in yourself, even when the world and circumstances are against you. This single trait can help you withstand all the challenges that come your way.

One thing that is highly appreciated about confident people is their ability to share their ideas, even if they know they may not be the best. This quality enables them to move forward. For example, if we lack confidence, we may not even have the courage to take a step towards our dreams.

When you are confident about yourself and your projects it makes the other person believe in you and go forward with your business. Confidence is a skill that can be learned and improved.

here are the ways in which you can build confidence

1.Making tiny promises and standing on them

Making Small Promises and Keeping Them

I struggle a lot with waking up before 8AM. It’s hard for me to stick to a consistent exercise and skincare routine. Most of the time, instead of studying like I planned, I end up getting caught up in binge-watching or mindlessly scrolling through my phone. I also tend to skip meals (please don’t tell my mom).

Every night, before I go to bed, I tell myself that I’ll start a healthier routine or wake up early to do some sun gazing. But in reality, I just end up hitting the snooze button on my alarm.

By the end of the day, I feel a lot of guilt and blame myself for not achieving even the smallest goals. It’s hard for me to have confidence in myself and set new goals because I feel like I can’t trust myself to follow through.

One way to build confidence is by making small promises to myself and actually keeping them. This helps me believe in myself and my abilities, and it allows me to make progress towards my goals.

2.TRY TO SOMETHING U FEAR MOST

I recently started learning how to ride a scooty. For those who don’t know me, I have a terrible fear of riding. I constantly worry about the possibility of hitting a car, receiving a fine or being sued, or even getting seriously injured. I often come up with excuses in my head, such as the scooty being too heavy, my legs not reaching the ground, or my hands hurting. However, due to my dad’s insistence on me being self-reliant and independent, I felt compelled to learn.

At the beginning, I set a rule for myself: if there was a speed breaker or if vehicles were approaching, I wouldn’t drive and instead my dad would take over.

Then one day, there was heavy traffic and my dad wasn’t there with me. Despite my fear, I braved it and drove in the midst of all those vehicles. When I reached home, I was overwhelmed with happiness. I had accomplished something I thought I could never do.

This experience boosted my confidence.

So, I encourage you to confront something you fear. It could be talking to your crush, publishing an article, or giving a public speech. Give it a try and see how it makes you feel.

In the end, stepping out of our comfort zones and facing our fears is essential for personal growth and self-discovery. It allows us to unlock our true potential and experience the joy of overcoming obstacles. So, embrace those challenges, take a leap of faith, and you might just surprise yourself with what you’re capable of achieving. Remember, the feeling of triumph and accomplishment far outweighs the temporary discomfort or fear that accompanies the journey. Believe in yourself and keep pushing forward, because there’s a world of possibilities waiting for you beyond your fears.

WORTHY

In this article, I want to discuss my fears and my love for public speaking. I have a strong desire to share my knowledge and make people feel loved, seen,heard and valued.

But as I was talking sometimes people says like

you need braces right

u have a hunch back

u are too thin

u have a resting bitch face

When I hear all of this, I feel strange inside. Do I really look that bad? Is my face not worth looking at? Yes, if I were to give a public speech, everyone would probably think I look terrible. I’ve always wanted to hide, but I have to accept my own face. I know I have imperfections, but I believe in my knowledge and my heart to keep moving forward.

this imperfection is what makes u beautiful and unique ,embrace them.

“Confidence is not about how you look or how others perceive you. It’s about embracing your imperfections and believing in your own worth.”

“Building confidence requires self-acceptance and recognizing that your value goes beyond physical appearance. It’s about focusing on your strengths and unique qualities.”

“Confidence comes from within. It’s an inner belief in your abilities, talents, and potential.”

“Being confident doesn’t mean you have all the answers. It means having the courage to take risks, make mistakes, and learn from them.”